Date with a circle that has your back
DateSafe helps you plan a date, share it with the people you trust, and check in along the way. Calm, private safety. Not a review site, not gossip.
Available now on iPhone. Core safety features are free; Android is on the roadmap.
No public profiles, no data sales, ever.
How it works
The same four steps you’ll see the first time you open the app.
Build your circle
Pick the people you trust. They opt in by text and only ever see what you share.
Send your Date Card
Who, where, when. Shared in 30 seconds through a private link that expires.
Check in on a timer
One tap says you're okay, even from your lock screen. Miss one, and your circle hears about it.
Help, fast and quiet
A panic slider, a safe word, a duress PIN that looks like a normal goodbye.
See it in action
Real screens from the app, not mockups.
Private by design
The promises the app makes on day one, in plain English.
- Private by default. Your dates and notes are visible only to the circle you choose.
- Encrypted. Sensitive details are protected in transit and at rest.
- You are in control. Change who can see what, any time.
- Never a review database. We do not rate or expose other people.
- Honest about emergencies. We help you alert your circle and reach 911 fast. We are not a dispatch service.
What you get
Everything in the app is built around one idea: calm, private safety.
Date Cards
The who, where, and when of a meetup, captured in about 30 seconds and shared through a private link that expires.
Trusted circle
Invite the people you want looking out for you. They opt in by text and only ever see what you choose to share.
Timed check-ins
Pick 30, 60, or 90 minutes. One tap says you're okay, even from your lock screen. Miss one and your circle hears about it.
Panic slider
A discreet slide sends your location and Date Card to your circle the moment you need them.
Safe word
A normal-looking text phrase that quietly tells your circle something is off.
Duress PIN
A second PIN that unlocks the app like normal while silently alerting your circle.
One-tap 911
Reach emergency services fast, with your location and plan details ready to read out.
Private journal
Your own notes and photos after a date. Always private, never shared with anyone.
AI safety tools
A safety-plan generator and a message coach that helps you spot red flags before the date.
Your safety is never paywalled
Everything that keeps you safe is free for everyone, forever. DateSafe Plus adds convenience on top, like live location links for your circle. It never gates your safety.
Questions
Is this a review app for rating people?
No. DateSafe is private safety planning. We never rate or expose other people.
What happens in an emergency?
DateSafe helps you alert your trusted circle and reach 911 with one tap. It is not an emergency dispatch service.
Is my data private?
Yes. Your data is encrypted and visible only to the circle you choose. You can export or delete it any time.
Who is it for?
Adults who want a calmer, safer process around dating and meetups. DateSafe is 18+.
Where can I get the app?
DateSafe is available now for iPhone on the App Store. Android support is on the roadmap.
Bring your circle with you
DateSafe is available now on iPhone. Set up your trusted circle before your next date.